Champs, NOT CHUMPS. How to Win Friends and Influence People, and be as Popular as Me (Flies and Honey)

What you project to the world affects how people judge you and form opinions about you.

Through much trial and error and interacting with many different people, there are ways to make people like you and not speak of you cynically for the most part.

There is one secret not everyone gets.

What's the difference between a Terrorist and the President of the United States?

Think about it. What's the difference between the Most Popular Man in the World (The Prez), and the Least Popular Person in the World (A Terrorist)?

Give up?

I'll tell you.

One person (the commander in chief) approaches every social interaction with THIS mindset, the mindset of the non-sociopath and non-bully.

The Subtext to a Truly Popular Person's Speech Patterns and Socializing is this, with EVERYONE.

"We Are More Friends Than Enemies"

If you are approached by someone who you sense wants to be a friend instead of an enemy, you instantly like that person more. That is why bullies and sociopaths, and sociopathic bullies are so unpopular. There's a certain shame and fear in their eyes, that only comes from true hatred and antagonism, which drives people away.

If you want to make enemies and only think in terms of enemies and adversaries, you WILL make enemies.

If you want to make friends you will if you think of ANYONE and EVERYONE as a potential friend.

Antagonism leads to unpopularity.

Acceptance of Everyone Else Makes People MORE Popular.